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  1. How do I get MIL to leave?

    She has come to stay....she has no home. I know to most this may seem harsh but she has caused years of problems, lies for attention and doesnt seem mentally stable. My husband thinks we need to take care of her and he is taking a new job out of town. I want her gone!
  2. Should I run for the hills? Someone please help me...

    I do not have a MIL yet, but I been with my BF for 3 years now and his mom is ALREADY getting to me. I am worried that she might be a deal breaker in the near future. So I'm just going to lay this down in chronological order.

    -We got together

    -Him and his dad had problems and I took him in and kept in safe while he was skipping school ( of course I had to skip with him to make sure he would stay out of trouble ) His mom was aware of this when she came to his school ...
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  3. Final MIL fight, should husband and kids go to her holiday gatherings?

    So sick of my MIL. I am not a kid, we have been married 20 years but have two elementary kids. Briefly my MIL personality is rude, harsh, the kids learn profanity not from school but from their GRANDMA. She babysits and always goes against our rules for sugar, naps, etc. This last fight I found out she was trying to change the babysitting schedule without telling me, the mom. Then she answered that "she doesn't go through me - she never did and that is just how it is. She will only talk to ...
  4. It's Payback Time!

    Mother in law is visiting! Never a good thing to hear! She is on her way!!! Nooo. Well, there is no stopping it and she is coming. Not just for a weekend but for TWO WHOLE WEEKS!

    So me and my hubby lived with my MIL & FIL for two whole year... We finally moved out this last December and moved even out of there state but that doesn't escape them!

    So Here's the story... I had my son with I was 20 and we moved in with the in laws to get good jobs ...
  5. suggestions please

    So, I feel so depressed about this entire situation, feel helpless and do not know what to do.

    I live in a culture where you are supposed to live with your in laws and take care of them, well, that would have been easy if my MIL was not the way she is.

    To give a little background on myself and my marriage. Well I work full time. I did my graduate studies in amongst the best 30 business schools in USA on scholarship. I earn a good amount of money. As in our culture intercast ...
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