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  1. POSTED 24 NOV 2010 - from FFH page

    Couple more stories about my ILs and MIL: We moved out of GMIL's house at the end of August, after copping abuse from her for a while. We moved in with older SIL's BF (she lives in another state while going to school), who had deadbeat UIL (evil GMIL's son, who's our age) living with him.

    UIL doesn't work. He lives off social security disability because of health issues. He had/has a GF who lives a decent distance away. UIL's antics: Stole SIL's pocket knife that DH got for her from ...
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  2. POSTED 24 NOV 2010 - from FFH page

    My DH warned me that his mother wasn't a very nice person, but I never took it very seriously. I assumed he was exaggerating.

    She works for DHS in child welfare. The irony that she judges other mothers is not lost on her family. It's a common joke (not to her face, of course) that she was hired because a bad mother knows other bad mothers.

    First I'll tell a story that doesn't involve me to show how bad of a mother she is. When DH was little, he needed an adult to cosign ...
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  3. POSTED 23 NOV 2010 - from FFH page

    Another story to explain the MIL & the IL's. DH was in the Armed Forces. He left for Iraq and all that "fun stuff". When he came back, after one of his deployments, he discovered they had taken their pick of anything he'd left in his room. He took back anything he was particularly concerned about, and just ignored other bits (like clothing etc.).

    When DH was little, he got an ingrown toenail. He had it for over 6 months. His mother refused to take him to the doctor. ...
  4. POSTED 21 NOV 2010 - from FFH page

    Thanksgiving Story: My DH's family usually splits up for Thanksgiving. His parents go to his maternal grandmother's for lunch (as well as the rest of MIL's siblings/cousins etc.), and to his paternal grandmother's for dinner (and the rest of FIL's siblings/cousins etc.). It's one or the other, and I believe they switch lunch/dinner every other year or something.

    Anyway, maternal GMIL is the one DH and I lived with for 3 months (the one that kicked my 10-week old puppy when she was ...
  5. POSTED 20 NOV 2010 - from FFH page

    I just realized that I don't think my ILs know my parents'/siblings' names! DH and I have been married over a year now. Granted, my parents live in another country, but sheesh! At least DH knows their names.

    A little note about MIL: She likes to act all holier-than-thou, but she doesn't realize that I know the secret she thinks people don't know: She is an adulteress! Not QUITE as bad as it sounds. MIL is young, 43, while my DM is 51. DH and I are the same age, and my mother had me ...
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