Donna
MIL visiting
MIL told DH last weekend she & FIL were coming to visit following weekend. Have not heard from them since; I do not know if they are definitely coming or not. DH will not honor my request to call them to find out. I don't feel like spending money on groceries if they aren't serious about visiting.
Second item of concern is MIL brings incense to burn. Last visit I found incense ash on the carpet in the bedroom where they stayed. I get instant headaches when I smell incense, however, I am willing to be open to her burning incense more responsibly. I suggested to DH that he should let his mom know to burn incense more cautiously. DH will not tell her, therefore, I will be handing her a disposable metal pan. Does anyone have a better solution? MIL tells me bleach smell makes her feel sick so I feel I can be open/honest about her incense burning.