sam65
Enmeshment Issues
I have been with my significant other for 5 years now. My situation is a little different because I am not married to him. I have a residence with my child and he bought a house with his mother. The thing is, he is a wonderful, gentle, kind guy, but he is also BFFs with his mother. She cooks for him every night and they have all their bills together and she says she takes care of him like she did her husband. He wants me to move in and gets frustrated because I don't. But his mom is boss of the house and rules the whole roost. His mom has no filter on her mouth and says hurtful things. He says he never wants to get married again so I feel if I did move in I would have no security. I feel like they are super enmeshed together. Plus mom is always right and I feel like the bad guy. Is this relationship worth it or do I run for the hills before it is too late?