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mil trying to keep tab on food we eat

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, Apr 13, 2015 at 03:24 AM (17068 Views)

My hubby n me live with our in laws and are married for little more than a year. I have always observed my mil keeping a count of how much we eat whn we have meals together. Also when she comes back from a trip she asks me what we ate for the days she was away and I avoid answering this. She also goes all the way to ask our maid what she cooked for us while she was away! We are a well earning family where my hubby me n my fil earn enough to afford a decent standard of living.
please advise how to deal with this as it is becoming increasingly irritating and a huge invasion on our privacy. Any suggested solution anyone ?

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Whoever - Jun 7, 2015 01:25 PM
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Move. Let her see how much she enjoys living on 2/3 less money than before.

Whoever
kateplus5 - Dec 3, 2015 02:57 PM
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Get your own home. Get your own food. Get your own life.
indian dil - Dec 7, 2015 04:22 AM
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the issue is that my hubby wants to stay in hi parents' house with me.. he does not want to move.. I am stuck with a horrid mil who interferes like it is the only thing in the world that she has to do...
Whoever - Feb 22, 2016 01:07 PM
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Would you rather be happy or would you rather live in h3ll? Stop combining your money with theirs. Save it, move and tell your mommy's boy DuH he can move with you and be your husband or he can stay with his mommy and be divorced.

Whoever
EvilEvilDIL - Feb 22, 2016 04:13 PM
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There is NOTHING you can do or say to get MIL to be a decent person in this situation. I'm guessing she does other things she does too that are over the line. Your only option is to remove yourself from the situation that gives her all the power, and to put boundaries on any time you might spend with her in the future.

1. Long lasting Birth Control, do NOT bring children into this family.
2. Save up to rent a place for just you.
3. When you have saved up first/last/deposit, tell DuH you are moving out in two weeks, with or without him. I know he wants to live with mumsie. He's welcome to do that, it will just be without you. He can sleep with her.
sweety - Jul 16, 2020 11:34 AM
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Do you speak up/stand up for yourself?
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Lutharjohn - Mar 7, 2022 03:13 AM
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