WOW! Powerful and wonderful post.

Sorry that you have the health issues but I can certainly relate.

One of the biggest point (for me) that you make is "Move on with YOUR life"
I have done this in other ways but am still doing the Hokey-Pokey with my NM. I stick my left arm out (or is it my neck?) then pull it back. I am slowly growing more spinal stamina.

Sending a virtual (hug) and thanks for your posting.