Quote Originally Posted by purple_rain View Post
maybe you should hang out with someone he hates? once, many years ago, when my DH suggested that i buy a plane ticket for myself and his mother to accompany her somewhere without him around, i asked him if he would like to sponsor and go on a trip with a mean co-worker of his who everyone at work hated. he was shocked by the analogy 'cos he didn't realise someone could dislike his haloed mommy though he himself didn't like her very much. 'cos in his heart he knew she was not really nice, but felt guilty even thinking about it.
At this point I don't think he'd care if I hung out with his sworn enemies. Just one more way for him to play the martyr/victim act...just like his mother does. Poor wittle DuH, his mean ol' wifey hangs out wiff hims enemieeeeessss!