Thanks. It doesn't look like we'll be in contact anytime soon. But hypothetically, if we were, my plan would be to not talk about NM at all, except to agree with ex-SIL and/or bro on a response if the girls mentioned her to me. I don't want to drag grown adults into our problems, let alone little kids.
One thing I'm worried about is one looks a lot like my ex SIL, the other a lot like bro and NM's side of the family. The younger one is blonde which my mother prefers to dark hair, which the older one has. I know there's not really anything I can do about it, but I hope the kids are protected from NM.
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