There are two possibilities right now; they can look similar
1. Is my Dh also a narcissist
2. Is my DH a victim of a narcissist
The next year is going to a big revelation time, if he gets better with time then he is a victim of narcissist abuse, if he starts to act more and more like her, then it is option #1.
Option #2 gives a bit of hope but only if he is willing to resolve it. If he is not willing to resolve it then it is just as bad a being option #1.
It is looking like option #2 thankfully as time is going on, but which option it is has to be established first, if it is option #1, well we all know how that goes with trying to help them out of it.
Timing is everything.
I am in a big aftermath stage, it feels more like a war ended then a person passing and I am looking for, what damages were done during the war? what can be salvaged? what was permanently damaged? My gut feel is that the light won, as it always does.