[QUOTE=StopThisInsanity;592178]My best advice to you is to nip this in the bud right now. Trust me when I say that the longer this is tolerated, the harder it is to correct. If I were you, I would tell my husband that a. he doesn't get to make plans for me without my consent and b. he doesn't get to pull the 'do this because I say so card' on me.

That's my fear, I would hate for this to go on and he just thinks its normal and besides its just hard for me to let it fly just this one time, everything in me doesn't feel right about this situation so I am going to have to address it.