Quote Originally Posted by far far away View Post
I’d consider sending them a nice card. Have you heard from them or seen them in person since the wedding. If so, how did they act? If you’ve seen them and they’ve been friendly then I might consider a small gift and realize that you’re probably never going to get a thank you. If there haven’t been any warm and fuzzy interactions between you and DN then I’d move them to the B list and send a nice holiday card.
That is what I want to do, but wanted to get some 3rd party perspectives on it. They'll get our family Christmas Card. I don't think my SIL is going to send them anything either. Neither of us have seen them since the wedding, but that's understandable when we're in the US midwest and they're in Florida.