Quote Originally Posted by Whoever View Post
Instead of driving yourself crazy with this, why not get a decent and appropriate Advanced Health Care Directive? All your decisions are made and stated to easily be followed by the medical staff. Then you don't have to rely on anyone's decisions. Your DH should have one, too.
This would help a lot. Do you have any friends you can trust?

Also, while you're at the attorney's, get it in writing who will take care of your children in case something happens to both of you.